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baby_slark's avatar

Here's a confession. When my children were first born I would cope by spending way to much time on my cellphone (Twitter). It was some Peter Pan Syndrome type sh**. My wife would complain all the time "spend time with your children!" but I was so addicted and absorbed in my little fantasy cope world. Finally to break the spell, one day I took my smart phone and smashed it with a hammer in front of her. I left Twitter and spent more time with my kids after that.

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Harvey Bungus's avatar

The poisonous part of modernity: Not Knowing How to Hear a Confession. Your friends IRL say a Good Honest Thing and you go "Aha, nice try guy, looking to pull my strings." Or you think "Ah, I've seen this before, he cannot be redeemed" because nobody on the tl is really looking for redemption/confession. You think, "Doesn't he know that HR won't tolerate this?" "Isn't that a Bad Thought?"

And all the while you make no confessions - per yourself, who would listen? (lots of people) - and you get crusty and mad and bleak. So no one lets you hold baby, but you see all these babies and you're like "What the fuck look at all these sinners holding babies, don't worry stick to the plan."

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