Well said. And there is also, "don't put your friends and loved ones in positions where you can't trust them."
I read somewhere that in nearly all instances where the wife cheats, the husband helped enable it.
It's why the cuckold has the horns: he's the goddamn satyr, not the dong-slinger he feigns victimhood over.
Same with friends. Don't act untrustworthy, don't test or challenge them. Be reliable, be honorable, and trust them to do the same. If you have doubts, testing them is just temptation dressed in false morality.
Instead, trust your instincts and get new friends. If you can't do that, then set things up so that they're only in positions where you can trust them. Or in positions where betrayal doesn't mean anything (e.g. over video games).
So many people get into business partnerships or start important projects with family members/friends they don't actually trust and then let the results ruin their relationships. I see it all the time and it's just so sad.
I’ve debated writing this because it will look gay and probably wont matter but maybe it will and looking gay is cool if its authentic so:
The other day you wrote a post that started with something about how you feel like you are a net negative to everyone youve ever met (id comment there but i am too lazy to find it) and i felt it was important that you know that reading your work has been a huge net positive in my life, easily in the top 10 people of people I’ve read ever. To name a few things:
1. your writing in general made me realize that writing in this way is viable and can be helpful to people which solved a problem I’ve been struggling with for three years in my writing. my older content is all very structured and dry and organized because i thought that would make me look smart and make people care and be the most helpful to people but i hated and dreaded writing it and it was a huge chore I did not enjoy and I constantly felt like a stupid loser for contributing nothing i valued to the world. i always knew communicating novel ideas was the thing i was supposed to do but i thought i had to do it in the way most people do. Now that I can write this way I have 5x’d my output and 10x’d my enjoyment of writing and finally feel at peace about my utility in the world.
2. Your post about feminine beauty and how its all little boy fantasy singlehandedly solved the biggest (and really only) problem I have in my marriage (and have had in every relationship I’ve ever been in) where I fixate on and define my self worth by how physically attractive my partner is. Any little moment of unattractiveness (even something as little and dumb as leaning over in a weird way that gives her a double chin) would send me through this panic of “omg my partner is ugly thus i am a loser everyone will judge me”. My wife is a total babe but she will get old soon and become less so and i have been fixating on and dreading this everyday for over a year. Every little wrinkle or imperfection would send me into this negative visualization of her as some old grandpa i could not be sexually attracted to. Long story, writing a post about it that i will probably eventually publish but TLDR I now dont have that problem anymore and it has doubled my ability to feel emotionally connected and sexually attracted to my wife just from that one simple idea that i have needed to hear for 15 years and didnt find it until your work.
3. Just knowing that there is another psychopath similar to me with similar interests makes me feel less alone and retarded for being the way I am. Seeing “myself” from the outside through you makes me think i suck a lot less and much more able to appreciate my strengths (as i can see through your flaws to your strengths much easier than I can see those similar flaws/strengths in myself)
Probably a lot more but I think thats enough for now. TLDR stop hating yourself idiot. Or keep doing it whatever i cant stop you but at least know that your self loathing is dumb and gay and you are actually a lot cooler than you think, just surrounded by normie retards who cant appreciate you.
Well said. And there is also, "don't put your friends and loved ones in positions where you can't trust them."
I read somewhere that in nearly all instances where the wife cheats, the husband helped enable it.
It's why the cuckold has the horns: he's the goddamn satyr, not the dong-slinger he feigns victimhood over.
Same with friends. Don't act untrustworthy, don't test or challenge them. Be reliable, be honorable, and trust them to do the same. If you have doubts, testing them is just temptation dressed in false morality.
Instead, trust your instincts and get new friends. If you can't do that, then set things up so that they're only in positions where you can trust them. Or in positions where betrayal doesn't mean anything (e.g. over video games).
So many people get into business partnerships or start important projects with family members/friends they don't actually trust and then let the results ruin their relationships. I see it all the time and it's just so sad.
egg report: “ladies, peg your boyfriends!!!!”
Top keks, Mr. Randy
I’ve debated writing this because it will look gay and probably wont matter but maybe it will and looking gay is cool if its authentic so:
The other day you wrote a post that started with something about how you feel like you are a net negative to everyone youve ever met (id comment there but i am too lazy to find it) and i felt it was important that you know that reading your work has been a huge net positive in my life, easily in the top 10 people of people I’ve read ever. To name a few things:
1. your writing in general made me realize that writing in this way is viable and can be helpful to people which solved a problem I’ve been struggling with for three years in my writing. my older content is all very structured and dry and organized because i thought that would make me look smart and make people care and be the most helpful to people but i hated and dreaded writing it and it was a huge chore I did not enjoy and I constantly felt like a stupid loser for contributing nothing i valued to the world. i always knew communicating novel ideas was the thing i was supposed to do but i thought i had to do it in the way most people do. Now that I can write this way I have 5x’d my output and 10x’d my enjoyment of writing and finally feel at peace about my utility in the world.
2. Your post about feminine beauty and how its all little boy fantasy singlehandedly solved the biggest (and really only) problem I have in my marriage (and have had in every relationship I’ve ever been in) where I fixate on and define my self worth by how physically attractive my partner is. Any little moment of unattractiveness (even something as little and dumb as leaning over in a weird way that gives her a double chin) would send me through this panic of “omg my partner is ugly thus i am a loser everyone will judge me”. My wife is a total babe but she will get old soon and become less so and i have been fixating on and dreading this everyday for over a year. Every little wrinkle or imperfection would send me into this negative visualization of her as some old grandpa i could not be sexually attracted to. Long story, writing a post about it that i will probably eventually publish but TLDR I now dont have that problem anymore and it has doubled my ability to feel emotionally connected and sexually attracted to my wife just from that one simple idea that i have needed to hear for 15 years and didnt find it until your work.
3. Just knowing that there is another psychopath similar to me with similar interests makes me feel less alone and retarded for being the way I am. Seeing “myself” from the outside through you makes me think i suck a lot less and much more able to appreciate my strengths (as i can see through your flaws to your strengths much easier than I can see those similar flaws/strengths in myself)
Probably a lot more but I think thats enough for now. TLDR stop hating yourself idiot. Or keep doing it whatever i cant stop you but at least know that your self loathing is dumb and gay and you are actually a lot cooler than you think, just surrounded by normie retards who cant appreciate you.
Thats all take care bye